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Letter writing should be that instrument, which will help both of you understand if you are really interested in each
other. The purpose of the introduction letter is to get a reply, get correspondence started. As one of our colleagues in the
dating industry suggests, the style of the letter writing called "romantic minimalism" proves to be really the most effective.
The first paragraph of your letter should capture the attention of your lady. Well, that's the thing you should think hard
about. Try beautiful words, but don't get fanatic, even compliments can do harm if they are abundant. Look at the picture
of hers, try to personalize. Then, write about yourself, but it is not necessarily to specify your nickname, or how many miles
from the nearest golf course. What the lady really needs to know, is that you are serious, not just looking for a toy or a
housekeeper, that you are not another pen pal who'll disappear, etc. Work, income and so on are good topics for the correspondence
later on. You maybe Mr. President himself, but in introductory letter you should remain vague and unpretentious.
All the said doesn't mean that you should write only two or three lines in your first letter. Nothing of the kind. In
your letter you must show her that you are really interested in getting to know her. Just write a normal size letter. You
are writing not a novel anyhow. Take a personal approach, try to focus on the keywords she used in her ad information. Do
not talk bad about the women you have been dating before, also, leave out the details of your previous relationships and married
life, keep them for yourself. Don't send dried flowers, it is no more romantic and could be considered as bad omen. Use simple
language, do not quote Petrarche and Shakespeare, she'll know later how well you are educated. We recommend to send a picture
or two with the introduction letter. A good face shot is important. Russian ladies give attention to the eyes, so, couple
of photos with a smile would be good. Mind, that the photos should show you and not your material possessions, like car, house,
office and so on; thus, you are at risk of attracting the wrong kind of girl.
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